In our childhood, we go through many fairy tales and the happy endings in them as in Cinderella, Sleeping beauty, Snow white and many more fairy tales. By the time as we grow older, we understand that the real and actual life is very much different from the fairy tales. In our teenage or in youth as we fall in love life seems to be an ecstasy to us and we want everything to be just perfect. We keep on imagining about our future with the beloved and hope for a happy and loving end of our love story just as in the fairy tales.

Married life may be a fairy tale for some couples as is getting up together in the beautiful morning seeking for that first lovely smile of the day. A lovely smile can put you on a high podium for the remaining day. Having breakfast together is also a great fun. In the evening when you return home from your work, you love to sit and talk with each other with a sip of nice evening tea. Slowly –slowly, day by day you both come so close that you become the habit for each other. However, life is not all about having breakfast together or going for an outing together, it is far more to go. Sharing and caring for your partner when he or she needs you the most is what we call the love.

The fact is that if one is not willing from heart to involve with all your joys and sorrows

There is no hope at all for a love bond. One cannot learn to love from the books, TV, seminar, or anything else; it is the feeling that comes right a-away from the heart. It hurts when you love your partner from the core of your heart and he /she does not. It is indeed very painful, and such marriages do not work. A marriage where the partners are not compatible is least likely to be a successful marriage. The most important fact to lead a married life adoringly and cheerfully understanding and trust are the two main pillars.

Whenever you are choosing a bride, just spend a little time with her, try to understand her feelings and nature and give her the space to know you. Almost in every marriage there are some clashes in the beginning but gradually the duo understand each other’s need and expectations and then the actually love develops.